is there a need for relationships to be defined? my answer would be yes. sometimes, and juz this one time actually, my friends couldn't find a defination for my status. me and him have discussed this before, and the conclusion is, we're very good friends. gracie and hazel decided to term it as friends with benefits. *laughs* it really doesn't matter anymore. i enjoy his company and i'm used to the way things are now. i know things are never gonna be the way i want them to be but it's hard to let go now.