Saturday, January 24, 2015

Baby Keith Full Month Party

Manna Pot Catering

Great Value A
  1. Butter Rice w/Garlic Crust
  2. Vegetarian Bee Hoon
  3. Broccoli & Cauliflower w/Wolfberries
  4. Curry Chicken
  5. Breaded Pangasius Sutchi Fillet with Tartar Dip
  6. Golden Scallop with Mayonnaise
  7. Mango Pudding with Fruits Cocktail
  8. Lime Cordial
Delivery Charges : $30
Number of Pax : 50
Rate : $8.90
Total : $508.25

Great Value A
  1. Vegetarian Fried Rice
  2. Vegetarian Bee Hoon
  3. Vegetarian Luo Han Cai 
  4. Curry Chicken
  5. Breaded Pangasius Sutchi Fillet with Tartar Dip
  6. Golden Scallop with Mayonnaise
  7. Mango Pudding with Fruits Cocktail
  8. Lime Cordial
Delivery Charges : waived
Number of Pax : 50
Rate : $8.90
Total : $476.15

Ultimate Value A
  1. Laksa Fried Rice
  2. Hong Kong Noodle
  3. Broccoli & Cauliflower w/Wolfberries
  4. Kong Bao Chicken
  5. Grilled Fish Fillet w/Lemon Butter
  6. Sambal Sotong on Banana Leaf
  7. Braised Seafood Beancurd
  8. Mini Chocolate Eclair
  9. Sea Coconut with Lemon
  10. Lime Cordial
Delivery Charges : waived
Number of Pax : 60
Rate : $12.80
Total : $821.76


Lulu's Celebratory Box

Theme
  1. duck x20
  2. sheep x20
  3. giraffe x20
  4. whale x20
  5. elephant x20
Flavoursome box
  1. ang ku kueh
  2. swiss roll
  3. chocolate tart
Free swiss rolls and red eggs platter
  1. 15 swiss rolls
  2. 15 swiss rolls with peanuts
  3. 30 red eggs
Shipping : Free Delivery
Order Total : $600

Theme
  1. ladybird x30
  2. panda x30
Joyful box
  1. ang ku kueh
  2. red egg
  3. chocolate chips muffin
Shipping : Free Delivery
Order Total : $390


Thank you for celebrating the arrival of our baby boy and sending your love and blessings our way! Your generosity and thoughtfulness is appreciated. We hope you had a great time!

Love, Daddy Kiat and Mummy Catherine






Friday, January 23, 2015

Post-Natal Confinement

Confinement is a time of healing, strengthening and preparing the body for life after childbirth. Taking certain foods and tonics during this time is thought to ensure health throughout your lifetime. The first 30 to 40 days after you give birth is the period where you are confined to a certain regimen comprised of nutritious diet, to-do’s and not-to-do’s, and lots of rest.

Confinement myths
  1. I am not allowed to bathe or touch water for fear of 'wind' entering the body
  2. I must consume plenty of wine, sesame oil and traditional herbs to drive out the ‘wind’
  3. I cannot drink plain water at all during confinement
  4. I have been told not to read or cry

Confinement facts
  1. There is no basis to these beliefs. In fact, bathing regularly ensures good personal hygiene and comfort. It reduces the incidence of skin and wound infections. On a personal note, it certainly ensures that the people around you find you more bearable.
  2. There is no medical reasoning behind this recommendation. In moderation, there is no harm in consuming these substances. However, when taken in excessive amounts, they may affect you and your baby adversely. Furthermore, there are various substances present in the herbs that we are not fully aware of. Alcohol and other organic substances might go into your breast milk, and when breastfeeding, these might be transferred to your baby. These substances may affect the liver and worsen jaundice in the newborn if it is already present.
  3. Adequate fluid consumption is advised especially if the mother is breastfeeding. The kidneys will produce more urine in the first few weeks after the baby is born to remove the excess fluid that has accumulated during the course of the pregnancy.
  4. The traditional belief is that this causes eye problems later in life, which has no scientific basis.

Much as there is no basis nor medical reasoning behind, I followed through the above myths for the 28 days of confinement as per advised by my mum. It was a great feat that I only wiped down and brushed teeth with boiled warm water mixed with Martel everyday, very much explained why I stepped out of the house only 4 times during the period. Washing of baby essentials, pump accessories and dishes after meals were also done by my parents or hubby. Meals comprises of dishes cooked with wine, sesame oil and/or ginger. As I was breastfeeding, tried as much as possible to pump before eating, else I would wait for at least 3 hours after meal to pump. From week 2 onwards, I also drank a shot of Benedictine D.O.M. after my last pump in the night, the next pump would be 4-6 hours after. To avoid plain water is probably the least of my worry, daily beverages are longan red date drink, 3-4 servings of 400-500ml and Milo - 1-2 servings of 300ml. The first week at home after delivery was bad as I practically could not control my tears, mum and hubby asked what was bothering me and I could not give any specific cause. Thank god this lasted for only a week and I believe the uncontrollable outburst was due to changing hormones.

Good foods for new mothers and everyone else in the family
  1. Angelica (dang gui) to enhance blood circulation
  2. Black fungus to cleanse the arteries
  3. Black vinegar to purify the blood
  4. Chinese wolfberry to nourish liver, kidneys and eyes
  5. Dark-coloured beans for being rich in fibre and folate
  6. Dried longan to promote restful sleep
  7. Eggs to nourish the body and complexion
  8. Old ginger to warm the body
  9. Red dates to improve energy and calm the mind
  10. Sesame oil for being rich in vitamin E, iron and calcium

Thank you mum for helping to cook, wash and take care of baby Keith. 辛苦你了! Appreciate both mum and dad for sacrificing the master bedroom and bed to us for the month. Thank you hubby for staying with me throughout the tough times and for putting up with my tantrums and temper. 

vegetarian confinement food =)
Benedictine D.O.M.
concoction for my bath water on the last day of confinement
外公外婆 with baby Keith before his 1st hair cut

Sunday, December 28, 2014

Thomson Medical - 4 days 3 nights maternity stay

due to caesarian section, i had to be warded for a standard period of at least 3 nights. was bedridden right after delivery till 26th morning and had to continue fasting while on IV drip. green light was given to consume milo on 25th evening and soft solid diet is recommended for my 26th breakfast. the best part of this bed confinement is i did not have the need to pee as they had inserted a catheter without my knowledge. both the IV drip and catheter were removed after dr claudine's 26th morning in-room visit and approved me getting out of bed. she advised to move around slowly in order for my body to adapt and to prevent affecting the wound.

my virgin IV drip nicely done by dr chong
despite stories of the uncaring staff at thomson and their slow response, i did not want to pass judgement till i see it for myself. at the end of the stay, i have to commend and thank the team at the ward for helping with the following.
  • wiped down and changed for me while i was confined in bed 
  • changed drip bag and cleared catheter bag on regular basis
  • served meals on time and ensured the correct diet was provided
  • great sanitary service
  • timely medical provision, especially for issuing piriton 4mg when i complained of itch on the 1st day
and also to the nurses at the nursery for
  • bringing baby to me 3 hourly to latch
  • assisting to feed expressed breast milk after i decided to pump on the 3rd day
  • clear explanation on care for baby (eg. cleaning umbilical area), items provided and details stated in the health booklet on the day of discharge
the overall experience was good, staff/nurses are attentive and responded to our requests promptly. however, i personally feel there is room for improvement.
  • lactation consultant came in on the 2nd day for about half an hour. taught the different ways to latch and correct massage technique for the boobs prior to latching. seems to be only fulfilling her duty but lack a personal touch.
  • during admission, we were informed of the on-going renovation works which would be carried out for stipulated timings on weekdays only. i was glad as it would affect us only for a day. they dropped a memo to us on friday itself to inform that there will be renovation over the weekend. dear spoke to the in-charge and she mentioned this was communicated upon arrival which was not. she then offered to convert a 2-bedded room to single-bedded for us as that area would have minimal disturbance. we decided to stay put as it would be too much trouble to pack our things and to inform relatives/friends on the change in location. 
  • we were asked to settle the bill at level 1 counter as they were shorthanded. dear went down and found out there was only 1 cashier available. requested for them to reach us at the room since we needed to wait for baby to be fed as well. finally managed to sign off at 12 noon, an hour past official discharge timing. 
thank you all relatives and friends who took time off to visit and for the gifts, your generosity and thoughtfulness is appreciated.
gifts from relatives and friends
flowers from cousin jennifer and family
goodie bags from thomson medical

Thursday, December 25, 2014

My Delivery Journal

the day is finally here. think i was tired out by the last minute checking and the fasting since 12 midnight that i slept till 0645hrs. wanted to wake up at 6am to play facebook games for one last time since i had no idea when will i be well enough to log in after delivery. dear on the contrary woke up earlier than the alarm and switched it off, which explained why i overslept. he was drinking coffee and playing games on his ipad in the kitchen when i went to wash up. had to remind him of the time and chased him to the shower. after which he packed the very last items on the checklist, photo/video taking equipment, and we were ready to set off.

really appreciate the smooth traffic during holiday, wonder how long the journey would have taken on a normal workday had we been rushing to the hospital due to contractions. we left bedok at 0738hrs and reached thomson medical at 0756hrs, awesome isn't it?

took a number for admission, queue 2004. there was only one other couple at the counter, but there was also only 1 staff serving at the moment. while waiting for our turn, we did what most people would have done, selfie!

我们去生孩子了!Merry Christmas everyone!
we were so engrossed with photo-taking and browsing of brochures that the staff had to call out to us if it was our number. the wait was approximately 5 minutes and it took 20 minutes to settle the paperwork, which included the following.
  1. Registration
  2. Hospital rules & regulations
  3. Estimated bill for hospital/professional fees
  4. Medisave/medishield claims
  5. Renovation notification
  6. 3 complimentary parking coupons ($3 per exit) were provided, 1 additional coupon can be obtained from ward nurse daily for companion
  7. Paid deposit of $4000
the concierge then led us to the ward where the nurse took over and showed us the way to room 313. after putting down our "luggage", the nurse went ahead with the procedures.
  1. Took urine sample for tests
  2. Brief procedures
  3. Measure blood pressure
  4. Measure baby's heartbeat, still in breech position
  5. Shave private area
  6. Insert poo softener, felt like air sprayed into anus and i needed to clear bowels within a minute
  7. Change into operating gown
thomson medical centre - single-bedded room 313
self-orientated around the room for 15 minutes and the nurse came to check if i was ready. put on the socks provided and off she pushed me to the waiting area. mobile phones were not allowed and had to be separated from dear for a short while. he was asked to proceed to delivery suite 10 minutes before 1000hrs, the scheduled caesarian timing.

final photo before delivery while waiting for the lift
the nurse came to confirm my particulars and was told to fill in my name and NRIC on the consent for operation. she then offered magazines for my reading pleasure while waiting. after what seems like 10 minutes, dr chong jin long, the requested anesthetist appeared from behind. he briefed me on the epidural procedures and the effects that i would experience. shortly after, dr claudine, my gynae arrived, said hi and checked on how i was doing before i was pushed to the delivery suite.

after being transferred to the operating table, dr chong informed that he would start administering the epidural. the whole process was almost painless, the only pain was similar to that of an ant bite. from insertion of the IV cannula to local anesthetic to epidural injection, dr chong explained clearly what he would do and how i would feel. have to thank fellow mummies for recommending such a good anesthetist. as we opted to donate baby's cord blood, blood samples were drawn through the IV line before epidural was given.

in less than 5 minutes, there were pins and needles in my legs and i gradually lost the feel of them, like they aren't there anymore. dr chong performed 2-3 tests to check if the caesarian area is numbed and is confirmed that i could no longer feel pain nor cold. dr claudine then pinched me real hard as what they described and all i could feel was tugging at the tummy. the epidural administration was a success. dr claudine told me that they would summon dear to come in once baby is ready to be delivered.

much as i would want to peep through the green cloth that was draped above my chest to see what they were doing, i was not sure if i would be able to take the bloody scene. the anticipation was killing me and was really glad when dr claudine asked the nurses to get dear to standby.

dear geared up in protective suit with surgical mask
dear and i chatted for a while but i could not remember what our conversation was about. i was very much distracted by the movements around the tummy area and was paying attention to dr claudine's comments. dear and i giggled when she complained that baby pooed on her. shortly after, she announced that the baby was here before we heard his 1st cry. the nurse showed baby to me for the 1st time and carried him away for cleaning with dear watching by the side. she also counted baby's fingers and toes to ensure baby is perfect and requested for dear's confirmation.

bonding with baby
baby was crying while lying on my chest. no matter how i patted him or what we said to him, he just kept wailing. this lasted for 5 minutes before they brought baby for various measurements and dear had to follow through.

the next half hour seemed to last forever. wonder why but i suddenly felt sleepy and dozed off on and off. it was pretty annoying to feel the tugging and pulling while dr claudine and the nurses worked on sewing me up. dr chong checked on me a couple of times to maintain the steroid level. it was a relief for me when they were finally done, time check 1110hrs. i was then pushed to the recovery area for 15 minutes observation before being sent back to the room where i was finally reunited with dear and of course, our newborn baby.

a very big thank you to all the personnel who helped to deliver our lovely and healthy baby boy.


Wednesday, December 24, 2014

My Pregnancy Journey - 38 Weeks

dear and i had mcdonald's breakfast this morning before his only appointment prior to the scheduled gynae visit at 12 noon. time check at 0930am and we were wondering if baby would have arrived should we have gone for the previously planned caesarian on christmas eve morning. this was in place due to baby shifting back to breech position a few weeks back. we went on to discuss plans for tomorrow, christmas day. options were to go window shopping at newly opened shopping malls, one km or seletar, or we could spend a day at jurong bird park. what helped made the decision for the latter was when we saw the newspaper ad for sintex warehouse sale at jalan ahmad ibrahim. since the sale location is near bird park, we could conveniently do both. little did we expect a huge surprise awaits us.

since i was not having any contraction symptoms, thought we would be ending this 2nd last pre-natal visit with "see you next week!". as we proceed with the usual OBS scan, dr claudine exclaimed "aiyo! you know what this boy do?". both dear and i froze for that second. "alamak! you tell me how?" she asked as she moved the scanner nearer my ribcage - we saw baby's head. she then provided the 2 available options, to arrange for caesarian tomorrow or to wait and hope baby turns down by 29 Dec. after much discussion on the pros and cons and also the possibilities of ending up with an emergency caesarian, dear and i decided to welcome our baby boy on christmas day. 2 of the main concerns were my water bag may break while baby is breech, his limbs might fall out or if baby fortunately heads down, and we induce the birth, there is a higher chance of ending up with an emergency caesarian.

as we trudged home trying to digest the fact that baby will be here tomorrow, there are last minute preparation to be done, eg. installation of the car seat and informing parents and close friends of the news. mixed feelings of excitement and anxiety, excited to finally meet our baby and at the same time worried of the new challenges ahead. nevertheless, i pray for a smooth delivery, a healthy and strong baby.

Christmas Eve Dinner - last meal before welcoming our Christmas baby

Saturday, December 20, 2014

There are many gifts under the Christmas tree. But the best one is the gift of your friendship.


15 Dec - high tea at l'espresso, goodwood park hotel, with loves
20 Dec - potluck at wen ting's house - salad with japanese sesame salad dressing, portobello mushroom with cheese, pork ribs, roast chicken, army stew, bakerzin log cake and udders icecream
20 Dec - uniquely ours tropical christmas tree - with compliments from wen ting's dad
thank you Jia Le, Chu Kok Loong and Nicky for the much appreciated thoughts

Thursday, December 18, 2014

My Pregnancy Journey - 37 Weeks

Admission Letter from Gynae

finally received the legendary blue letter from dr claudine, she has not been able to pass a verdict on which form to issue me due to our mischievous baby. he turned down at 32 weeks and went into breech again during 34 weeks, which we then scheduled a caesarian section on christmas eve morning, the latest date the surgery can be performed. wonder if our boy was pulling a fast one on us or that our daily counseling worked, he was back in the head-down position at 35 weeks. dr claudine decided to go through the consent form and delivery charges with us after she comes back from her 2 weeks break.

Addendum to Consent Form - Normal Labour

the form consists of 3 parts :
  • labour risks
  • labour care and possible other procedures
  • acknowledgement section

Estimation of Doctor's Fees - amount before GST

1. doctor's professional fees
  • normal vaginal delivery $2100 - $2700
  • vacuum / forceps $2700 - $3300
  • lower segment caesarian section $3300 - $4000
2. doctor's daily attendance fees $200 - $240 per trip, usually 2-3 trips
3. anaesthetist $600 - $800 per trip, caesarian section 25% surgeon's fee
4. paediatrician $600 - $800

Low Vaginal Swab

went through the microbiological examination for group B strep and results would only be available the following week. a vaginal swab is taken and sent to the laboratory. the cells from the swab are transferred onto a dish or ‘plate’ containing agar (a growth medium) and after 24 and 48 hours incubation, the plate is examined to see if GBS has grown.

whatever the result of a group B strep specific test, it is good news. if test result is negative, that is great. if test result is positive, that is also good news – although it means the baby is at a raised risk of developing group B strep infection, it also means the risk is known so steps can be considered that have been proven to be hugely effective at minimizing that risk.

Nesting Instinct

much as i have been packing, cleaning, washing and putting baby stuff in place consistently since 31 weeks, something seems to need to be done everyday.

duckie - 1st toy from mummy & daddy
mini cot 23"x42" at my in-laws'
luxury cot 130x70cm at my parents'
recycling a cupboard that mum wanted to discard for storing of baby's daily necessities

Thursday, December 11, 2014

Singapore Cord Blood Bank - SCBB

Cord Blood Donation Process
  1. Speak with the delivering doctor on the intention to donate cord blood.
  2. Call SCBB at 63945011 for a pre-screening and appointment after 32 weeks of gestation.
  3. Meet the SCBB nurse coordinator to sign the volunteer information and informed consent form and complete the maternal risk questionnaire.  
  4. Affirm the volunteer information and informed consent form in delivery suite/labour room.
  5. Collection of maternal samples - approximately 30ml of blood.
  6. After the baby is delivered, the umbilical cord is clamped and cut, the cord blood is then collected before the placenta is delivered.
  7. The collected cord blood and the mother’s blood samples will be brought to SCBB laboratory for evaluation and processing.
For more information, please visit http://www.scbb.com.sg/Pages/Home.aspx

whether to store or donate our baby's cord blood has been on my mind since 1st trimester. read up on the benefits of storage with private banks and always wondered if our child would need it. finally reached a decision during early 3rd trimester when both dear and myself find it unnecessary since it would not be helpful if there is unfortunately a genetic issue.

procrastinated the donation registration due to the seemingly troublesome pre-screening. upon confirmation from 2-3 friends that it was a relatively short and fuss-free process, i skipped the discussion with gynae portion as she was not in town till coming friday and called SCBB line on tuesday afternoon. the phone conversation took about 15 minutes, had to answer some background/health related questions and made appointment to sign necessary documents.

the face-to-face meeting is usually fixed in conjunction with gynae appointment. however, mine was done near home this afternoon as they do not work weekends and my upcoming gynae visit happens to be on saturday. doreen, nurse coordinator for SCBB, was friendly and helpful. though i have to mention that she rushed through the pretty lengthy questionnaire and shorten the meeting to only 20 minutes, she had all areas covered. managed to also find out that if in case immediate family (eg. parents/siblings) needs a transplant, we can check if the donated cord blood is still available, using either of the parent's IC no. to track.

hope the donation will be a success and save another person's life.

Tuesday, December 09, 2014

Old School Delights

OSD - http://www.oldschooldelights.com/
Lime Juice Ice - $3.90, Mochaccino - $4.90
Pulut - $4.80
Otak - $2.50
Mee Siam - $5.80
Mee Rebus - $5.80
Sticky Chewy Chocolate Fudge - complimentary
finally got down to bringing xiao bai for almost due servicing and also, to fix the wheel bearing problem before baby's arrival. while waiting, we decided to take a walk from xin ming to upper thomson for our brunch. dear was torn between prata, his all-time favourite and old school delights, for the mee siam. he chose the latter in the end as it has been eons since he last visited this old friend's shop. it was a pity that we did not see olivia in person. thank you for the call and we will arrange for a meet-up when baby is here.

Sunday, December 07, 2014

My Pregnancy Journey - Part 12

Birth Plan

there are occasions when i popped random questions at my gynae when they come to my mind, such as "can episiotomy be performed if i opt for natural delivery without epidural?", but never gotten down to write my birth plan till now at 36 weeks. will discuss with her during my next visit at 37 weeks to ensure that we are on the same page and make necessary changes if needed.

What Is A Birth Plan?

A birth plan is a sheet communicating your concerns and wishes for the nurses, midwives and doctors caring for you in labour and birth. It describes how you would like labour and birth to be managed, the kind of support you would like, such as a doula, and your preferences for comfort measures and interventions. It also includes your wishes if things do not go as expected, and for breastfeeding and postpartum care.

Why Write A Birth Plan?

You may feel that you do not really know what to expect in labour. Even so, there is value in creating your birth preference sheet.
  • When crafting your birth plan in pregnancy, you find out about options for labour and birth. This reflection and information gathering prepares you to make considered decisions in labour and birth. You also feel more confident as birth approaches!
  • A birth plan is more than a checklist; it is a vehicle of discussion with your doctor. As you and your doctor go over the draft, you are able to discuss specific wishes; your doctor gains insight into your concerns and gives feedback.
  • Your birth plan allows you to communicate with the labour ward staff, enabling them to support you in the way you want.
  • In labour, you would not want to be answering questions. Having a birth plan ensures that those around you know your preferences.
  • This is especially true if you have less common wishes for your birth such as allowing your baby to descend gently without prolonged periods of pushing or ‘cheerleader-style’ coaching from those caring for you in the crowning stage. Other requests may include your desire to give birth in an upright position or skin-to-skin contact with your baby immediately after a C-section.

How Do You Create A Birth Plan?

① Research & Reflect - Become informed about all available forms of comfort measures and pain relief. Find out about the benefits and drawbacks of each alternative. Read about routine procedures and when these are medically necessary. Take independent childbirth classes, learn new skills. Use your new found knowledge to work out your philosophy towards your birth. All the requests in your birth plan need to be consistent with the kind of birth you want. For instance, if you would like minimal interventions, think about how this can be achieved and what you would need to do to reach this outcome.

② Draft - Write a draft.

③ Dialogue With Your Doctor - Discuss the draft with your doctor. During these discussions, you will learn how compatible your wishes are with your doctor’s and hospital’s practices. Stay flexible, but aware of your goals for your birth.

④ Your Final Birth Plan - Towards the end of your pregnancy, you will arrive at a final version, a product of your research, reflection, and dialogue with your doctor.

Consider these dos and don’ts

① Layout - Organise your plan as a chart or using bullet points. Use short paragraphs and clear sub-headings.

② Language & Choice of words - A long list of demands for your doctor and his staff may be frustrating for them. Opt for an easy-to-read style and use words that are neither passive (“if it is possible, could I have…”) nor aggressive (“do not perform unnecessary vaginal exams…”). Go for a friendly, respectful tone. Keep a copy in your patient file, pass one to labour staff, and keep a copy handy for yourself.

③ Sample Birth Plan - Point-Form Birth Plan
  • Introduction about you and your partner, your feelings, your background – state strong feelings for example, about having an unmedicated birth.
  • Your goals, wishes and other concerns – mention any fears or past experiences.
  • Your preferences for managing labour pain – think of your preferences as being on a scale, with one end being ‘feeling no discomfort at all’ and the other end being ‘no medical pain relief, only comfort measures such as using a birth ball’.
  • Interventions – when labour progresses normally, are interventions necessary for safety? What are your views on monitoring the baby/contractions, using drugs to speed up labour, intravenous fluids, having an episiotomy, vacuum or forceps birth or coached pushing as the baby emerges?
  • Preferences for unexpected events – consider how you can still meet many of your goals for example, in a C-section or with kangaroo care.
  • Postpartum care – mention rooming-in or dietary needs.
  • Newborn care & breastfeeding – mention your wishes for skin-to-skin contact after birth, plans for newborn procedures and breastfeeding.

Show your birth plan to your gynae and ask her to go through it with you during one of your antenatal appointments, ideally before you are 36 weeks pregnant. Discussing your plan with your gynae will give you the chance to ask questions and find out more about what will happen when you go into labour. Also, by listening to your preferences, your gynae will get to know you better and understand what is important to you

Though a birth plan is helpful, labour and birth are unpredictable. Your midwife may need to recommend a course of action at any time which is not what you had originally hoped for. But this will always be in the best interests of you and your baby.
You may choose not to write a birth plan or defer birth decisions to your doctor. Even so, you already have some beliefs and expectations regarding your birth and writing your birth plan on paper is merely a way of communicating those goals to your birth team. The information-gathering, self-awareness and reflection you go through in creating your birth plan are all as vital to having a fulfilling birth as the birth plan itself!

Sunday, November 30, 2014

My Pregnancy Journey - Part 11

Swelling Ankles and Feet

wonder if i am lucky to be experiencing these only at 35 weeks. may have been self-inflicted as i was involved in sitex show for the past 5 days. ankles and feet swelled badly the day i got home after set up and the back pain is affecting my movements, both walking and sitting. resorted to raising my legs when i sleep and the swell subsided after 2 days.

Why are my ankles and feet so swollen

What you are experiencing is edema – that is when excess fluid collects in your tissue. It is normal to have a certain amount of swelling during pregnancy because you are retaining more water. Changes in your blood chemistry also cause some fluid to shift into your tissue.

In addition, your growing uterus puts pressure on your pelvic veins and your vena cava, the large vein on the right side of the body that carries blood from your lower limbs back to the heart. The pressure slows the return of blood from your legs, causing it to pool, which forces fluid from your veins into the tissues of your feet and ankles.

Swelling is common, about half of all pregnant women experience swelling around their ankles, particularly in the last few months of pregnancy. It may be particularly severe for women with excessive amniotic fluid or those carrying multiples. The swelling in your legs usually gets worse as the day progresses, especially if you are on your feet a lot. Gravity makes the fluid build at the lowest point. Hot weather and being tired can also make swelling worse. You may find your fingers, face and lower back become swollen too.

Your swelling is likely to become temporarily worse in the first three or four days after your baby's birth. As your body recovers after birth, all the extra tissue, blood vessels and fluid needed during pregnancy now need to be dissolved and expelled. You may find yourself urinating frequently and sweating a lot in the first days after childbirth.

When should I be concerned about swelling

Call your gynae if you notice swelling in your face or puffiness around your eyes, more than slight swelling of your hands, excessive or sudden swelling of your feet/ankles or moves up your calf and leaves an indentation when pressed. This could be a sign of preeclampsia, a serious condition.

Also, if you notice that one leg is significantly more swollen than the other, especially if your calf or thigh is red, tender and lumpy. This could signal a blood clot in your vein - thrombosis.

What can I do to minimize the swelling

It may not be possible to prevent some swelling from developing. But you can prevent it from becoming severe. Severe swelling can make your legs painful and your skin tender. You can help relieve the increased pressure on your veins by lying on your side. Since the vena cava is on the right side of your body, resting on your left side works best.

Try to eat a balanced diet so that you put on a healthy amount of weight during pregnancy. Your diet should include a small amount of lean protein such as meat, poultry, eggs, beans and pulses, with each meal.

Eat at least five portions of fruit and vegetables every day. Aim to reduce how much salt, sugar and fat you have and drink plenty of water to help your kidneys to filter the excess fluid.

Some foods may help to maintain good kidney function and make you wee more (natural diuretics). These include celery, watercress, parsley (in small amounts), apples and citrus fruits. Onions and garlic may help to improve your circulation

Try to avoid eating pre-packaged, highly processed foods that contain both salt and other additives, as these can make fluid retention worse. Opt for foods which are naturally rich in vitamins C and E.

Good sources of vitamin C include:
  • citrus fruits
  • green and red peppers
  • melons
  • potatoes
  • tomatoes
  • strawberries
  • cabbage
  • broccoli
Foods rich in vitamin E include:
  • vegetable oils (especially corn, soy and wheatgerm oil)
  • sunflower seeds
  • wheatgerm
  • sweetcorn
  • cashews and almonds
  • corn oil margarine

What tips can I try to ease swelling

Rest as much as possible, putting your feet up by resting them on a stool or pile of books. Try not to cross your legs or ankles while sitting, as this restricts your blood flow. Sit down when you can, and if your work involves standing for long periods of time, move about from one foot to the other to increase blood flow. Take regular breaks from sitting or standing. A short walk will help keep your blood from pooling in your lower extremities.

Stretch your legs frequently while sitting. Stretch your leg out, heel first, and gently flex your foot to stretch your calf muscles. Rotate your ankles and wriggle your toes. Ask your partner to massage your feet and legs gently, using both hands and working upwards from feet to knees, using a base oil such as grapeseed. However, if your legs are excessively swollen and the skin is very tight, this may be too painful for you.

Avoid using aromatherapy essential oils for massage, but you can add them to a bowl of water and soak your feet in the mixture. Cypress oil is particularly good for circulation and varicose veins. Lavender and camomile oil may ease your discomfort and make you feel more relaxed.

You could try placing green or white cabbage leaves on the swollen area to draw out excess fluid and relieve your discomfort. The leaves should be wiped clean but not washed, and may be cooled in the refrigerator, but not in the freezer. Wrap the leaves around the most swollen parts of your legs and feet to make a compress. Leave them until they become wet, then repeat with fresh leaves until the pain is reduced. Repeat this as often as necessary until you feel more comfortable.

Dandelion tea, a herbal remedy, may help to prevent fluid retention, but do not take this if you have a gall bladder condition. Always drink herbal teas in moderation during pregnancy.

Acupuncture may help. The theory is that it re-balances your internal energies and aids your circulation and kidney function. Osteopathy and chiropractic treat misalignment in your skeleton, which may be placing stress and tension on specific areas of your body, restricting your blood flow.

Foot massage may help to relieve your swollen ankles, and reflexology may ease swelling and the discomfort it causes. Choose a registered reflexologist who is qualified and insured to treat pregnant women.

Wear comfortable shoes that stretch to accommodate any swelling in your feet. Do not wear socks or stockings that have tight bands around the ankles or calves. Try waist-high maternity support stockings. Put them on before you get out of bed in the morning so blood does not have a chance to pool around your ankles.

Drink plenty of water. Surprisingly, this helps your body retain less water.

Exercise regularly, especially by walking, swimming, or riding an exercise bike. Or try a water aerobics class – immersion in water may temporarily help reduce swelling, particularly if the water level is up near your shoulders.

Sunday, November 16, 2014

Maternity Shoot @ Dakota Crescent













































location Dakota Crescent
photos by Kiat Ng